Forgiveness

Thirsty

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In northern Chile rests a place so dry, that it has been used by NASA to test instruments for future Mars missions. Mars on earth is the Atacama Desert, also known as the driest place on earth. A small number of organisms can live within its expanse, but certain parts are completely uninhabitable.

It almost never rains in the Atacama. Some researchers believe that there was not any “significant” rainfall between 1570 to 1971. In other words, if you thought your hands were dry after all that hand washing to prevent COVID-19, this desert puts the definition of dry into perspective.

Here in Pennsylvania, we live in what is classified as a humid continental climate with hot humid summers and cold winters. Seldom is our soil arid. In fact, I think we here in Southeastern PA must have received about ten times the amount of rainfall this past week than the Atacama has in decades!

This area is one with streams of fresh, natural spring water travelling through blossoming, early-spring banks. Fishing is one of my favorite springtime activities and while I love the thrill of getting a hit on my line, it’s a great excuse to spend an afternoon outside soaking in the beauty of creation.

When streams run dry, however, life itself is not far behind. Those living near the Atacama know this well. It will only be a matter of days till the living beings that once depended on the water source shrivel up just like the cracked soil where life giving water once flowed.

During certain seasons of our lives, a similar dehydration takes place deep within us. Where vigorous life once dwelled now sits a dusty pile of bones. The things we once looked to for significance and pleasure disappear.

In this time of uncertain quarantine, most of our lives have drastically changed. We’re scared. We’re frustrated. We’re bored! In all of it, there is an overwhelming sense of drought. People are literally dying around us. Jobs are being lost. The greenery of our lives is being replaced with brown decay. It’s starting to feel like we’re in the middle of the Atacama.

But it’s in the driest times that we can sometimes see the clearest. We see what really matters and what our real needs are when the things we once thought we needed no longer exist. As things evaporate, our thirst intensifies, and along with it, the search to quench our parched soul.

King David of ancient Israel knew this quest well.

 “O God, you are my God, earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you, my body longs for you, in a dry and weary land where there is no water.” Psalm 63:1

On multiple occasions in scripture including this specific verse, David writes of a cotton-mouth soul. The focus of his searching does not change amidst the shifting circumstances of his writing. He thirsts for God and that thirst leads him to seek God “earnestly.” Just like a dehydrated person seeking water.

But why? Why did David seek God in this way? Undoubtedly, David experienced equal to, if not more than the amount of grief and “dehydration” that every human being throughout history has faced. What made Him seek God and why does it matter for us?

David’s description of God here contains a truth that is easy to overlook but too profound to ignore. Hundreds of years later, this truth would be shared with a large group of Israelites, Samaritans and other people groups who in hearing it were polarized.

“On the last and greatest day of the Feast, Jesus stood and said in a loud voice ‘If anyone is thirsty, let him come to me and drink.’” John 7:37

Jesus Christ, a carpenter from Galilee, was not offering the people at the feast free Dixie cups of water on a hot day. He spoke in the same metaphoric vein as David. Yet here, Jesus proclaimed to be the God David thirsted for all those years ago. By equating himself with water, Jesus said that apart from knowing Him, all men were dead and as dry as a desert.

Sandwiched between these numerous statements (see references below!) were miracles that also fulfilled prophecies about the one God would send to make an atonement for sins. Jesus matched the description during every stage of His life. Yet tragically, as Jesus tells the crowd in John 6:36 “But as I told you, you have seen me and still you do not believe.”

Was it just Jesus’ miracles that made Him water to those who believe in Him?

No.

What makes Jesus indispensable is that He is the only one who can pay the penalty for our sins. We can’t right our wrongs before God. We can’t ignore Him and make the price for our sins go away saying He doesn’t exist. Each one of us needs Jesus more than we need our next glass of water.

When we recognize that we are indeed a sinner deserving hell for our rebellion against God, then we can truly begin to understand why Jesus is like water to us. It was His death that satisfied God’s required payment for our sin.

“For our sake He (God the Father) made Him (Jesus) to be sin who knew no sin (Jesus), so that in him (Jesus) we might become the righteousness of God.” 2 Corinthians 5:21

In every calamity, many are brought to a place of deep despair. Blind hope that things will soon get back to normal offers fake refreshment that we can see through. Real security is knowing that whether the worst case scenario happens or not, my soul’s needs are covered.

So, whether you’re feeling like your world is the Atacama or a luscious green meadow right now, I pray that you’ll drink deeply of the water only Jesus provides through His death and resurrection. It’s virus proof. It’s war proof. It’s even death proof.

 

Scripture References:

Isaiah 55:1 – “Come everyone who thirsts…”

John 7:37 – “If anyone thirsts, let him come to me and drink…”

John 6:35 – “Whoever believes in me shall never thirst…”

Psalm 42:2 – “My soul thirsts for God, for the living God…”

Psalm 63:1 – “My soul thirsts for you…”

Psalm 143:6 – “My soul thirst for you like a parched land…”

John 4:13 – “Whoever drinks of the water I give will never thirst again…”

Revelation 21:6 – “To the thirsty I will give from the spring of the water of life without payment…”

Revelation 22:16 – “Let the one who is thirsty come…”

Forgive

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In 2011, Belgian-born Australian songwriter Gotye released a single that would change his life forever. The song was first released in Australia and New Zealand, but eventually became a global hit. Soaring up national charts, Gotye’s song nestled atop the Billboard Hot 100 list before winning two Grammys. Today, the song has been purchased over 13 million times making it one of the best-selling digital singles of all time.

The popularity of this song is intriguing, yet all the more when you listen to the lyrics.

“But you didn’t have to cut me off

Make out like it never happened and that we were nothing

And I don’t even need your love

But you treat me like a stranger and that feels so rough

No, you didn’t have to stoop so low

Have your friends collect your records and then change your number

I guess that I don’t need that though

Now you’re just somebody that I used to know”

“Somebody That I Used to Know” is a song you likely have heard, even if you don’t realize it. It’s a catchy tune that has filled the radio airwaves ever since it’s genesis in 2011. Clearly, people like it, and while I acknowledge that you can like a song for the tune, I have a hard time believing that’s the only reason people hit the play arrow.

The clear, poignant words “now you’re just somebody that I used to know” perfectly describe the words that rest on the tip of our heart’s tongue when we’ve been wronged by another. I realize this is a break-up song, but the tempting sentiment remains the same across all broken relationships.

The temptation is to “ghost” that person. Tell yourself that they mean nothing to you – that they are merely someone you used to know.

The irony is that while you’re doing that, you can’t stop thinking about that person and their action. It is here where bitterness with all its decay begins to call your heart home.

It’s a losing game, but one at which we’re all superstars.

Everyone has been “screwed over” as the song puts it – or at least feels they’ve been at one time or another. Sometimes our grievances against others are justified and sometimes they aren’t. Either way, our urge in those moments isn’t exactly forgiveness.

Forgiveness is hard. Continually passing up an opportunity to seek retribution for an offense seems unjust. Cancelling that debt is loss.

I’m convinced that genuine, heartfelt forgiveness is impossible for us to hand out until we have received it ourselves. Chances are that most people reading this have never been in prison or, more specifically, on death row. I’d like you to try and imagine you are for a moment.

Sitting in your cell, torn apart by your crime, you cross off the days until execution. As the date nears, a guard knocks at your door. He tells you that you’re free to go. As a cocktail of emotions flow through you, you question simply, “why?” The guard tells you that your charges remain, but another has offered to step in and take the punishment your actions deserved.

This is an incomplete picture of what Jesus Christ has done for us, but I hope that it serves to place that reality in practical terms. You may know Him as the leader of the Christian religion, or perhaps as a really “good” historical figure, but it’s His death on the cross and His resurrection from the dead three days later that allow us to forgive. For it is here where sinful man is offered their most desperate need – God’s forgiveness. Jesus is, in the most literal way, the substitute taking our place on death row.

Every one of us has rebelled against God. We don’t think there’s a problem with that separation until we experience a genuine taste of Godlessness. Yet it’s God’s righteous judgement that we were saved from when Jesus took his dying breath and cried out “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” It’s in that moment that we along with the death row inmate can say with tears, “why?”

Jesus dying on the cross is the greatest “I love you” ever spoken. His resurrection from the dead proved that justice was served and that what we had owed was paid in full.

When we see that we’ve been forgiven something infinitely greater than any wrongdoing we’ll receive on this earth, it makes real forgiveness possible. If our catastrophic sins are no longer held against us by God, how could there be any justification in holding something so comparatively insignificant against a fellow sinner?

I recognize and affirm that genuine forgiveness can occur without a reconciliation or an emotional desire. The relationship may end. But let it not be because you sought your own depraved method of justice. Let it be for the good of the other. Let it be with a heart free of bitterness, in light of the forgiveness you have received.

If you have not already considered that you need God’s forgiveness, please read Romans 3:22 & 23 below.  The greatest need of your offender is also your greatest need.

The temptation to say of someone “now you’re just somebody that I used to know” will always be appealing to our selfish hearts. Yet it is receiving God’s forgiveness and forgiving others that will set our hearts free.

Scripture References:

Romans 3:22-23 – “This righteousness is given through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference between Jew and Gentile, 23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, 24 and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”

Colossians 3:13 – “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”

Matthew 18:21-35 – Parable of the unmerciful servant

Matthew 6:12 – As Jesus instructed us to pray : “And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.”

Matthew 6: 14-15 – “For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.”

John 15:13 – “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”